Seriously!
Isang blogger sa multiply.com ang nagsulat tungkol sa panliligaw ng hindi mo naman type. Nabanggit nya din sa article nya na pag nanligaw ka ng kapitbahay… parang nagpakasal ka na rin. What do you think? Tama ba ung statement nya?
For me, it’s slightly true. The moment you decide to court someone your parents knew or maybe the daughter of your parents’ friends, you are forced to be good, I mean G-O-O-D — you should be very serious with your intentions — meaning no playtime, no fling; you should know the rules and take them seriously – meaning 12 o’clock curfew IS 12 o’clock; you should learn the art of seeking her parents’ approval – meaning learning how to make them like you. Kung marunong kang mangharana or magsibak ng kahoy, the better! I’m just not sure if there are still men out there who CAN and WILL do those!
At kapag “kayo” na (finally), it’s even harder! The standards and parents’ expectations are higher. Dapat ata pakasalan mo na yung anak nila! One wrong move and you’re dead, SERIOUSLY!
The same goes if you are seeing someone from your friends’ circle or the same workplace. It’s like dating the whole gang! Your common friends see every detail in your relationship. And they are the ones affected whenever you two are having problems or emotional difficulties.
Courting needs effort and keeping the relationship requires more than effort! It calls for patience, honesty, love and trust. There may not be a perfect formula to a good relationship but teamwork really helps, SERIOUSLY!
Your blog is impressive,it is always in my mind after i read it.